Stubbornness: Placing it Quite Rightly Makes a Difference

Are you stubborn? Do you think that your stubbornness is harming others? Do you want to change yourself? But why so?

Try to think the other way.

Stubbornness can become your strength, your power to achieve success. Yes, that’s true.

As a professional mind healing consultant and an Anxiety Therapist Dubai, Light Angelic, I have confronted many individuals coming to me for their stubborn behavior.

You might be feeling astonished after hearing that, but that’s true.

I have seen people who are unable to deal with their stubbornness. Society dislikes a stubborn person. With a few characteristics, you can easily observe that a person is stubborn.

Let’s explore further and get a proper understanding of the topic.

How to Identify the Stubbornness of an Individual?

Nobody likes being attacked personally or being contradicted by somebody every time. But if you’re dealing with a stubborn individual, be ready to experience the embarrassing moments.

I have dealt numerous times with people who are stubborn and want to transform themselves into docile ones.

After connecting with such individuals, I experienced the following characteristics dominant in them,

A stubborn individual doesn’t like to change their ideas for others.
A stubborn person avoids information that contradicts their beliefs.
A stubborn individual fears change and tries to escape stressful situations or life changes.
The argument is the favorite activity of a stubborn person.
Attacking personally in a conversation is another activity that satisfies the ego of a stubborn individual.
Making ego-based decisions is quite common in stubborn people.

Reasons Behind a Stubborn Behavior?

As a healer, I have delved deep into the mind of headstrong individuals and tried to understand the reason behind their behavior.

The stubborn behavior of an individual mostly comes from childhood. Neglected from the parents, being compared with the siblings, or scolded at every single point creates a sense of fear in the child’s mind.

A traumatized childhood leaves the scars of submissiveness, discouragement, fear, and disheartenment, on the mind and soul of an individual.

The wounded inner child turns into a pessimistic and stubborn personality. Arguments, fear of change, and remaining stiff on their thoughts or ideas become a part of a person’s life with a traumatized childhood.

Specific behavior with people are stuck with as they believe it’s protecting us, its shield where they feel that either it is getting attention or otherwise its severe damage or deep guilt inside them; they have been insulted so many times that the second behavior they took naturally being stubborn so not to feel those pain again and again; this behavior is the silver lining between being good or bad, being feeling of judged all the time and using this as shield layer of protection, to hide, to ignore or not to attain others drama.

For some people, stubbornness can be courageous as they live their life on their terms
Otherwise, it acts as a conflicting belief from what they see and what they are experiencing and feels about the scenario; It’s very personal to people who deal with stubbornness.

But, as a mind-healing consultant, instead of eliminating stubbornness, I work on the same for the benefit of an individual.

While healing this kind of people, it’s very important to find the belief behind this, the belief that stubbornness comes as punishment; we need to give a new ROLE to this belief; punishment is the most profound belief that comes from many lives, and only can be replaced by giving new role as CHEER LEADER to get motivation or to find new purpose in their life.

Giving a new role to punishment works as a miracle, and stubborn behavior can turn into strength with proper guidance. The feeling of stubbornness is no longer there with them as now they see as CHEER LEADER to achieve their goals and dreams comes from well-versed guidance; it becomes an inbuilt booster and motivator and works as fuel to achieve any goals.

But a healed mind, body, and soul must move in the right direction. Without a peaceful mind, the path toward success becomes hazy, and stubbornness prevails.

So, with incredible healing techniques, individuals can shift their stubbornness into valuable activities.

After healing, I have felt a sudden shift in the mindset of the individuals. With 21 days of regular sessions, the people who used to be ignored by society for their awful attitude now participate actively in social gatherings.

Now, stubbornness has converted into a zeal for accomplishing the aims and goals of life. And this is what the magic of healing is.

So, if you want to bring transformation in yourself and push your stubbornness towards the good, connect with Prriti Parmaar, a life coach at Light Angelic, and get the best healing regime. Here are the following healing techniques,